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Make sure your endgame technique is solid—gets the girls going!

Seriously though, don't stress... there are increasingly more women in so called 'anti-girl' fields including computer science (which is a great thing). See how that goes for you in a couple months... also staying at home smoking weed and playing chess is probably not going to help you meet other people. So maybe go get a part-time job/a more social-hobby as well—won't hurt.

Lol, have fun!
Well to approach the queen you should try to isolate her until submission
If you want a Girl to hang out with lose some weight weigh somewhere between 50 to 65 kgs Max also get rid of that belly and get into sports eg. soccer or so hang out more at social events and dont act shy act confident (remember nice guys finish last :D) and don't talk about erotic stuff that is creepy lol
I'm 18 years old too, so i think i have some relevancy...
Try to meet new people (girls), look for opportunities to strike a conversation in public, at parks, bus stations, public transport, grocery store, beach... use any opportunity in which you can promote conversation, even by asking for a fucking lighter to lite yo weed lmao.
Use your intellect to your advantage, a lot of girls, and even the dumb ones (coming from experience here it shocks me as well) like smart guys. Computers, chess, what ever. Say something nerdy from time to time in a cool way. The more girls you meet the more likeminded people you will meet. I hit a convo about chess with a girl i found out was playing, we ended up together soon after. She sucked, at chess as well actually.

Don't worry about your weight, I'm your height with between 5-10 kilos less, you should be fine, and if you feel like it work out/hit the gym, but from what I've seen looks aren't even that important as much as they are propagated to be by shallow people and the media.

So tl;dr

Strike conversations, if it goes wrong who cares, only 2 people took part in it, you will get over it the moment a convo goes well and it starts moving forward, and the girl will forget about it, so no fear there.
Use your intellect to impress once the conversation goes from the weather and the location of soy milk in the store to personal things.
Good luck!

Dude, just go out to clubs and approach girls. Search for RSD on youtube and good luck.
#4 what? He is 1,91m and you suggest a weight of only 50-65 kg? This is missed up, man!

Looks are important, but not as important as you might think. Confidence is much more crucial. Sadly this is a hard thing to fake :D
@scuffi i am 1.89m and my weight like 61 kg.

All i am saying baised on where i am girls are occupied on looks more than personality. Having confidence is big + they dont like fat guys they think it's unhealthy they want a guy that can protect them rather than a guy who will pass out if he has to climb up a steep road :D
@DST001 I don't think that a 1,91m 50 kg guy can protect anyone. The body of a man this slim is too busy, preventing a collaps ;)

The weight is not always a good indicator for health. A 1,85m and 90 kg man can be totally healthy by having muscle instead of fat.

It may be country dependent but here I don't think that girls like guys who are too skinny.
@scuffi I am not skinny XD i just don't weigh much :P girls perfer guys who are skinny than who are fat put yourself in girls shoes would u rather be in a relationship with someone you can hug or someone who will be splitting their shorts everytime they bend over and who's greatest enemy is stairs? :D

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