Not half an hour after writing comment #19, I stumbled upon this blog:
lichess.org/@/NoelStuder/blog/how-to-overcome-chess-anxiety/Obgb5R7z
In particular its second section ("Fear Is Useless In Chess"), doesn't it sound familiar? :-)
lichess.org/@/NoelStuder/blog/how-to-overcome-chess-anxiety/Obgb5R7z
In particular its second section ("Fear Is Useless In Chess"), doesn't it sound familiar? :-)